I have understood, I have fought for you, I have been there for you, and I have listened to you. I have held your hand while you cried. I stood up for you. I even told him he was wrong.
I know you still love him. I have listened to your pain of losing him. I didn't take him from you, and you know that. He had been gone for a while before we fell in love.
But last night was the last straw.
How dare you call our home and make demands on us. How dare you question why I answered the phone? HELLO you are calling MY home. It doesn't matter weather it is his phone or not. He didn't want to answer the phone. He didn't want to listen to your shit while you are drunk.
I tried to be nice and told you it was not the best time to call. I told you we were in bed and ready to go to sleep. I was nice.
How dare you tell me he is not my husband. How dare you question the validly of my marriage! HE IS NOT YOUR husband any more. Aren't you supposed to be with somebody else? Aren't you asking that person for a marriage?
I never question the validly of your marriage. Don't you recall you also had a commitment ceremony and took you vows seriously? Well? How dare you!!!
This is what I want to say: The bond between you and me is broken. You fucked up. You are not welcome any more. I don't need your shit. He doesn't need your shit either. Get over it. It's been more that a year and he has moved on. I told you before I was on your side. I even fought with his ex-girlfriend because of how she made your relationship less important because you were only married for two years to him. It didn't even matter to her you were with him for five. It didn't count to her. Don't you remember how much that hurt you? Don't you remember how I defended you! You turn around and make a mockery of my relationship. We say what happens in our home. NOT you. You are not going to call me and tell me how to run my home, and you are certainly not going to tell him how to handle this marriage. It is time for you to move on, and out of our lives. That's it. No more....
I know you still love him. I have listened to your pain of losing him. I didn't take him from you, and you know that. He had been gone for a while before we fell in love.
But last night was the last straw.
How dare you call our home and make demands on us. How dare you question why I answered the phone? HELLO you are calling MY home. It doesn't matter weather it is his phone or not. He didn't want to answer the phone. He didn't want to listen to your shit while you are drunk.
I tried to be nice and told you it was not the best time to call. I told you we were in bed and ready to go to sleep. I was nice.
How dare you tell me he is not my husband. How dare you question the validly of my marriage! HE IS NOT YOUR husband any more. Aren't you supposed to be with somebody else? Aren't you asking that person for a marriage?
I never question the validly of your marriage. Don't you recall you also had a commitment ceremony and took you vows seriously? Well? How dare you!!!
This is what I want to say: The bond between you and me is broken. You fucked up. You are not welcome any more. I don't need your shit. He doesn't need your shit either. Get over it. It's been more that a year and he has moved on. I told you before I was on your side. I even fought with his ex-girlfriend because of how she made your relationship less important because you were only married for two years to him. It didn't even matter to her you were with him for five. It didn't count to her. Don't you remember how much that hurt you? Don't you remember how I defended you! You turn around and make a mockery of my relationship. We say what happens in our home. NOT you. You are not going to call me and tell me how to run my home, and you are certainly not going to tell him how to handle this marriage. It is time for you to move on, and out of our lives. That's it. No more....
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Mon, June 2, 2008 - 11:04 AMThanks..she is just driving me crazy. -
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Wed, June 11, 2008 - 7:56 PMFucking bitch. That would send me over the edge. I think you have a good plan, you were a good friend and now she has turned on you, blaming you for her own shit. Classic denial bullshit. Are there kids between the two of them?
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Fri, June 13, 2008 - 3:50 PMI love you baby, but I just want to chime in here. I will defend you to the last, my love. But just so there isn't any confusion, I did tell her she could call me any time, even though this incident went badly, she really isn't a "fucking bitch" , she is just hurting. But, I do agree, you were a good friend to her. And hopefully time will heal the rest..................... -
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Fri, June 13, 2008 - 6:03 PMNo going back with me. She is a "fucken bitch" may be not to you. But to me she was to me. She crossed the line, and I am done. -
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Sat, June 14, 2008 - 12:19 PMIn my book, people don't get off the hook because they are drunk or high when they do something. I have to forgive people internally but I don't have to throw myself on the their sword again. -
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Thu, June 19, 2008 - 3:09 PMYou said it! I agree with you. Life is too short in my book to have toxic people in my life.
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